Carol Round on Abide in His Presence to Bear Fruit

“Abide in me as I abide in you. Just as the branch cannot bear fruit by itself unless it abides in the vine, neither can you unless you abide in me”—John 15:4 (NRSV).

Abide is not a word we use often today. Other words, according to that mean the same or almost the same include pause, rest, anticipate, linger, stay, stop, and remain.

Scott O’Neil, sports executive, and author of “Be Where Your Feet Are: Seven Principles to Keep You Present, Grounded, and Thriving,” writes, “When we’re moving at 115 MPH, we rarely see the wall coming. But it comes for all of us and when it does, we grasp for lessons, for meaning, for purpose. Each moment (good or bad) and each win or loss, provides us an opportunity to learn, and if we choose to take it, that opportunity can change our lives—and the world—for the better.

“The human spirit craves connection. Authenticity. Belonging. Touch. Gratitude. Purpose. We need to make our interactions count. Whether it’s the death of a friend, loss of a job, a bad break-up, or the isolation of COVID-19, those who manage to be where their feet are will grow, stretch, and emerge stronger, smarter and more prepared as we find peace and gratitude in the pause.”

Practicing the Pause

O’Neil is a man of faith, and he encourages us to pause from our constant movement to find peace in the quiet. Although I’ve not read his book yet, I listened to an interview with him on a recent morning program. He said, “Life is messy. Life is noisy. We need to peel back the curtain and find time to just be. We need to get off social media, put our phone down, and turn off the TV.”

I agree. There’s just too much noise in today’s world. As I was filling up my car’s tank recently, I had to listen to commercials blaring from a TV screen on the gas pump. Without a remote control, I couldn’t mute the shouting salesperson like I do at home.

While we may not be able to control outside noises, we can practice the pause, mute the world, and abide in the Lord in the confines of our own homes. Only then, can we hear that “still, small voice” inviting us into His presence. “Be still and know that I am God” (Psalm 46:10).

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SOURCE: Assist News Service, Carol Round

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