In his first interview since he announced he was renouncing his faith and ending his marriage, Joshua Harris, who authored the Christian cult classic I Kissed Dating Goodbye, admitted he excommunicated people from the church and eventually excommunicated himself.
“I was a leader and a spokesman and I called people to live in very particular ways, to sacrifice in very particular ways. And so for me to change in my thinking feels like a betrayal to them,” Harris said during a recent interview with Mike Allen, co-founder and executive editor of Axios on “Axios on HBO.”
“I excommunicated people. If you’re not living according to the teaching of the Bible and you’re living in unrepentant sin, then you have to be put out of the church. And I think I came to a point of recognizing, ‘You know what? I’m not living according to this. And I held other people to this standard.’ And, you know, I excommunicated myself essentially.”
Harris, who was lead pastor of Covenant Life Church, the founding church of Sovereign Grace Ministries in Gaithersburg, Maryland, said he had been going through a process of deconversion for a while before making his decision but noted that the main reason he “excommunicated” himself was because of the failure of his marriage.
“I was really just trying to be honest about the fact that all the ways that I had defined faith and Christianity that I was no longer choosing to live according to those — most significantly, the decision that my wife and I made to end our marriage,” he said.
The former pastor noted that some of the things that could lead to excommunication include unbiblical divorce and unrepentant sin that was oftentimes sexual in nature.
“An affair. You know, living a gay lifestyle. Anyone in the LGBTQ community would fall into that if they weren’t actively trying to overcome those inclinations,” Harris said.
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SOURCE: Christian Post, Leonardo Blair