At Nashville’s Grand Ole Opry, you might say Randy Travis’ voice still lingers on stage… and on the walls backstage, where we found Randy and his wife, Mary, admiring his many photographs with country music friends.
I spoke with Randy and Mary backstage at the Opry and asked them what it’s like coming back each time. “Good,” Randy said. “It’s like coming home,” Mary agreed.
Randy came to his music home to celebrate his 60th birthday roughly six years after being in a coma and surviving a stroke that nearly ended his life.
Forever and Ever, Amen
Mary and Randy share the story of their ordeal in a new book, Forever and Ever, Amen: A Memoir of Music, Faith, and Braving the Storms of Life.
In it, Mary says it was Randy’s decision not to pull the plug and let him die after the devastating stroke that left him in a coma. I asked her what gave her the sign that let her know Randy wanted to fight.
“Well, I was going to fight because he was going to fight and we both were going to fight because God was still fighting for us. He’s the final say,” she said.
“We Can’t Save Him…Pull the Plug”
“I went to his bedside. And I knew what the doctors had told me,” she continued. “And that was that we can’t save him. We can’t do anything else. Pull the plug. That was what the typical medical journal will tell you. What I tell the world is that God doesn’t read medical files! He’s not interested. So, I went to his bedside and I said, ‘Honey, baby, you have got to let me know if you want to keep fighting.’
“And he gave me the answer that I needed. He squeezed my hand and we hadn’t gotten anything out of him as far as movement or responses for days. So, that was huge. It was a turning point. So he squeezed my hand and I saw a little tear form and it fell down the side of his cheek. So it was full steam ahead,” Mary said.
Randy is still on a long road to recovery and has difficulty speaking. But he shares details of his struggle in Forever and Ever, Amen – a familiar title that’s also the name of his third number one single.
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