Ed Young, lead pastor of Fellowship Church in Grapevine, Texas, is tackling the problem of personal baggage from dysfunction and abuse in a new sermon series titled “Adult Children.”
Young is covering issues like divorce, addiction, and family dysfunction in the series, which kicked off last week and had its latest installment on Sunday.
“Divorce. Addiction. Dysfunction. Abuse. We live in a broken world and because of that, we are either experiencing one of these issues or we know someone who is,” explains Fellowship Church’s website.
“In this series of talks by Ed Young, we will discover what the Bible has to say about these issues, and that ultimately there is value in and victory over our struggles and that hope can arise from heartache.”
To illustrate his point, for his first installment of the series, delivered on Jan. 14, Young drove an SUV onto the stage of Fellowship, complete with several bags and suitcases tied to the top.
He recalled his experiences overseeing a family vacation to SeaWorld when his sons and daughters were children. Upon their return, he forgot about the luggage on top of the car and drove straight into the garage, destroying the top of his garage.
“A lot of us here have some serious family baggage. We’re carrying around a lot of baggage on top of our lives. Yet, most of us are unaware that we have the baggage. We’re just sort of used to it,” explained Young.
“We think it’s ‘normal.’ We think it’s ‘healthy.’ Yet, if we stop and look, we see the carnage, we see the destruction that the baggage is causing and also we’re discovering if we really take a look at our lives that its expensive.”
What kind of baggage are people carrying? Anxiety, anger, lack of forgiveness, promiscuity, trust issues, and guilt, among other things, Young explained. Many people grow up experiencing that baggage in their households and later end up displaying that same anxiety, anger, promiscuity and guilt.
“Maybe you grew up in the family of a divorce situation, alcohol, drugs, narcissism, maybe you grew up with some sort of abuse,” he told the congregation. In such families, young girls and boys may end up seeking love and intimacy elsewhere and find themselves having sex with the first person who sends a suggestive text or reaches out to them, Young noted.
“And then you have confusion in these families where maybe you have an absentee father or mother, you have homosexuality, addiction to porn, lust. I think we see it played out all the time. If you look at how many couples are living together now, I understand it. I get it. ‘I’m not going to repeat what I saw in my family. My parents hated each other, they divorced. I’m not going to do that. I’m going to test drive this girl … this guy [before] we get married.”
Young explained that the inspiration for the “Adult Children” series was the Bible passage of Isaiah 57:18-19, which reads: “I have seen how they acted, but I will heal them. I will lead them and help them, and I will comfort those who mourn. I offer peace to all, both near and far! I will heal my people.”
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Source: Christian Post