Sixth season American Idol winner Jordin Sparks once proudly waved the flag of purity, even sporting a promise ring, vowing to remain a virgin until marriage.
But after trading in her v-card and going through some painfully public splits, the professed Christian says she is back to practicing abstinence.
In a recent Instagram post, the Grammy-nominated singer opened a dialogue about celibacy by sharing a book she was reading on the subject titled, Chastened:The Unexpected Story of My Year Without Sex, by Hephzibah Anderson and Justine Eyre.
Oh, you want to talk about what I’m reading? Let’s have a discussion on this one, shall we? ☺️ Have you ever consciously been celibate? Why or why not? Are you celibate now? Why or why not? Did you plan on doing so, life happened & now you’ve recommitted? (Me! ??) Do you think you could do it? Why or why not? No shame or judgement here, everyone has their own personal feelings & journey to take. I want to keep my page a safe place though, keep it classy! #bookworm #readingisfundamental #chastened
“Have you ever consciously been celibate? Why or why not? Are you celibate now? Why or why not? Did you plan on doing so, life happened & now you’ve recommitted? (Me!),” wrote the Sparkle actress.
That was Sparks’ way of finally admitting she intended to wait for marriage to be sexually intimate, but got off track along the way.
Back in 2014, following a breakup with her then pop star boyfriend Jason Derulo, the “No Air” vocalist wasn’t quite ready to be transparent when talk show host Wendy Williams needled her about her abandoned virtuous lifestyle in a sit-down interview.
“Are any one of these rings the purity ring?” questioned the host who popularized the phrase, “How you doin’?”
Seeming momentarily startled, Sparks quickly flashed all ten of her fingers, smiled and gave a quick head shake, confirming the ring was no longer there.
At the time, she didn’t go any further than that.
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SOURCE: EEW Magazine – Sharon West