The Dirty Little Secret of Many Christian Girls

Christian women are experiencing the same bondage that men fight. (Charisma archives)
Christian women are experiencing the same bondage that men fight. (Charisma archives)

Did you know has a little sister blog at It’s a site much like the first one, though targeted at young women (mostly high school and college aged) with the goal of identifying lies and replacing them with God’s Truth.

I have the privilege of running that blog, and the 30,000+ young women who visit there every month are a passion of mine. I often say that if I could, I’d put their pictures on my refrigerator (that would be a big fridge!). These are great girls who love the Lord and want to know how He calls them to live.

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But they’ve got a secret. They’re addicted to porn.

They write to us about their sin, their secrets and their shame. Here are their actual words:

“I am someone who struggles with porn, and I’m a female. How can I beat this struggle? There doesn’t seem to be help for females struggling with porn. What should I do? I don’t want to tell anyone because it’s embarrassing, and people would judge me.”

“I am also a female who struggles with the temptations of porn … I try to stay away from the temptations, but I always seem to go back to it. I feel guilty, and I want to be free from this sin. I feel sick about it.”

“I became a Christian recently, but before that I struggled with porn and masturbating. I still struggle … I have repented of it many times, told God I’m sorry and that I will do better, but I just can’t stop! I’m at my wits end, and I can’t tell my mom. Please give me some advice and pray for me!!!!!!!!”

Comments like these used to trickle in at a rate of one or two per month, but lately they’ve come in an avalanche. Every single day we hear from a young woman who is addicted to porn—and often porn’s lustful sidekick, masturbation.

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SOURCE: Charisma News
Erin Davis

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