Katie Bennett: Why I Stopped Judging People’s Physical Beauty

Awhile back, I spent some time as a volunteer, helping take care of a bunch of kids in a nursery-type setting. As I played with these sweet, little babies and toddlers (they were all delightful), I noticed a few children that I thought were especially adorable.

One day, another volunteer struck up a conversation with me. “Look at little Liza!” she said. “I cannot get over how cute she is!” I turned my gaze to Liza. Honestly, I was at a loss for words. This was not a child I had noticed as being one of the outstanding “cute ones.” She had not made my list, and I didn’t have an enthusiastic agreement on my tongue because I had failed to notice her.

I wasn’t going to contradict a statement like this, because, of course, all children are cute. So instead, I slowly nodded in agreement and began watching the little girl with new eyes. I tried to see her as this volunteer did.

With this renewed vision, I soon recognized her unique beauty, and was quite struck by it.

Knowing that someone else thought she was special changed my perception of her (or perhaps lack of perception, in this case). Then it hit me. God views each person as special and beautiful. Their features are His handiwork. Their image is a reflection of His.

The way the volunteer admired Liza, which caused me to see her differently, is the same way God admires each of His creations.

As I scanned the room, a sense of instant conviction washed over me for the “beauty judgments” I had made among these precious little people. I saw the pride in my own heart that led me to think this was my determination to make.

I realized, in sorrow, that with each “have” I had identified in my own mind (regardless of whether or not I commented), I was inadvertently categorizing many other children as “have not’s.”

A positive “judgment” was not much better than a negative one at the heart level.

Although this potentially forgettable experience happened a long time ago, the resulting reflection and effects it brought into my life still lingers.

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SOURCE: Christian Post, Katie Bennett